Information for Teens

You've just learned that one of the most important people in your life has cancer. Do you feel shocked, numb, angry, or afraid? Do you feel like life is unfair? One thing is certain - you don't feel good.

For now, try to focus on these facts:

Many people survive cancer.

There are nearly 10 million cancer survivors living in the U.S. today. That's because scientists are discovering new and better ways to find and treat cancer. During this really tough time, it will help you to have hope. Kathy’s Camp want to be there for your.

You're not alone.

Right now it might seem that no one else in the world feels the way you do. In a way you're right. No one can feel exactly like you do. But it might help to know that many teens have a parent who has cancer. Talking to others may help you sort out your feelings. Remember, you are not alone.

You're not to blame.

Cancer is a disease with various causes, many of which doctors don't fully understand. None of these causes has anything to do with what you've done, thought, or said.

Balance is important.

Many teens feel like their parent's cancer is always on their mind. Others try to avoid it. Try to strike a balance. You can be concerned about your parent and still stay connected with people and activities that you care about.

Knowledge is power.

It can help to learn more about cancer and cancer treatments. Sometimes what you imagine is actually worse than the reality

Try these tips:

Talk with family and friends that you feel close to. You owe it to yourself.
Write your thoughts down in a journal.
Join a support group to meet with other teens that are facing some of the same things you are, or just get connected to our Kathy’s Camp family.

The National Cancer Institute of the USA has an online booklet available called When Your Parent Has Cancer- A Guide For Teens. Click here to download.